Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

The Only Thing More Annoying…

Last week my good friend Tom Miller aka Tomfoolery over at YourTango wrote a piece about the worst’s most annoying husband.  I guess I’m the last person to hear about this blog. Anyway, it got me to thinking about a friend of mine (actually we’re not close anymore, long story, so not appropriate for this […]
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Don’t Shit Where You Eat (?)

Work and dating – I’ve always been of the opinion that they don’t mix, but then, I’ve never really been in  a situation where I wanted to date anyone I worked with.  The few times I’ve had guys I worked with ask me out, I politely turned them down saying that I didn’t date co-workers.  […]
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No, It Wasn’t Good For Me

You know I love my friends over at YourTango.  As far as lady mags go, theirs is pretty cool (I have nothing against women or magazines, but magazines that target women tend to be overly obsessed with celebrities, make-up, fashion and ‘pleasing your man’ – shit I really don’t care that much about).  Today they […]

Debunking Myths – 2 at a Time

Not too long ago I wrote a post about sex myths, or rather, about articles that claimed to debunk commonly held sex myths.  Now here I am attempting to do some debunking of my own. Yesterday I read a couple of things that seemed to be predicated upon common misperceptions of what women do or […]
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Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell – My NUMBER

Oh boy.  Where to start? OK, let’s start here – Only an idiot would ask a question that he didn’t really want to know the answer to.  And yet… Last week Tom Miller  wrote an amusing column on Sexual History and why a woman’s specific number doesn’t count. I’m not going to parse it here. […]