Thank you so much to everyone for your thoughtful and supportive comments regarding my “Blog Policy” post, here, on Twitter and via direct messaging.  I appreciate them.  I also appreciate the messages of the WTF? variety.  I know that I included a lot of info in that last post.  It was long, and could have [...]

So, as you all know, I’m currently using OKCupid.  It’s my second time around with this service.  The first time I tried it was a total waste of time.  But now, well, things seem to be going a little better (although the guy I went out with last Friday was a OKC guy).  I should [...]

We only dated for a few months.  I was 20 and I guess he was probably the same age.  And I hated his name.  Hated it the way only a self-involved, 20 year-old could hate the name of a guy she was dating.  He had one of those really geeky names that brought to mind [...]

OK, I don’t like doing stuff like this.  It’s not really my thing.  But I can’t help myself.  I’m online now, in another window, trying to get through my Plenty of Fish inbox and WTF?  I cannot believe that these guys think that they’re trying.  The messages that I’m getting (not all of them. but [...]

A couple of years ago I met this guy and we went out for a drink. It was an unremarkable date (attractive and intelligent but arrogant – the classic NY triple) except for the fact that as I was leaving he grabbed me and gave me a pretty fabulous kiss. We emailed back and forth [...]