Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Don’t Be Cruel

Cruel:  disposed to inflict pain or suffering; devoid of humane feelings The cruelest thing a man can do to a woman is to portray her as perfection. D. H. Lawrence The other day, the guys at VSB did a post on the 4 cruelest things that women do to men.  As usual, for them, it […]
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Do You Recycle Sex?

I have a new favorite phrase:  recycled sex.  Lots of us have had it.  It’s ex-sex, aka sex with someone you used to be in a relationship with. Like most things related to sex, people have very strong feelings about this.  Some people think it’s OK, some don’t.  I fall somewhere in between. My views […]
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The Chase

So here I am, genuinely confused.  Well, not exactly confused.  But of two minds. As some of you might know from an earlier post, I’m a fan of VSB (anyone who takes offense at their humor should send complaints to them, not me).  Earlier this week they did a post on why women shouldn’t approach […]
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It Never Hurts To Ask

As I mentioned earlier in the week, I read a LOT of blogs.  Some that you probably wouldn’t imagine I’d be a fan of. I was laughing my ass off yesterday as I read this post in Very Smart Brothas – How To Answer Questions So That I’ll Never Call You. The gentlemen at VSB […]
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