Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Mel V. G-O-D

I’m so excited about today’s guest post, for a couple of reasons. A) I’m excited I remembered to post it. B) It’s from the always fabulous Miss Melisa Mae. Mel  V. G-O-D If you had a car, you had a bedroom.  The backseat was ample enough room to become acquainted with the object of one’s […]

The (Almost) 40 Year Old Virgin

So last night I was talking with friends about one of our relatives. He doesn’t read this blog, doesn’t even know about it, we think. But I’m going to be discreet and not include too many biographical details, just because. He’s almost 40. And as far as anyone knows, a virgin. In fact, we’re all […]

A Teenage Could of Should of

This week’s Guy’s Story is from Johnny Dzubak (aka AoC Johnny -  if you read the comments here on the blog).  I was rather surprised and delighted when he said he wanted to contribute something.  Here it is:  Today is Sunday and that means it’s time for another Guys’s Story.  Every Sunday I have posts […]
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"Single" Can Mean a Lot of Things

So yeah, I’m single and I date a lot.  Big whoop. Girls like me are a dime a dozen.  Guys, too. What I find more fascinating are people who don’t date. And I don’t mean fascinating in a judgmental way.  I mean honest to goodness – fascinating. The non-daters I’m thinking of seem to fall […]

Sex Is…

Yesterday Jezebel ran a piece called Few People Agree On the Definition of Sex. They covered an issue that I’ve been meaning to write about for a while, namely that different people mean different things when they say the word sex. For some people, sex includes oral sex.  For others it doesn’t.  There are actually […]