Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Bitter

I try to politely let guys down when I’m not interested in them. I think it’s kind of rude to just stop answering emails or to not return phone calls. There are times when this policy falls by the wayside. If someone’s been rude or nasty to me, or just unpleasant, well, I might be […]

#1 – Don’t Stare at My Boobs

My regular readers know how I feel about dating experts. I don’t consider myself an expert and I think that most people who do (consider themselves experts) are full of shit. That’s not an insult to anyone specific. It’s just how I feel. I know there are a lot of “experts” who dish out advice […]

Mishaps Happen and the Magic of 3

So I had to cancel my date tonight. I live in one of those wonderful old buildings in NYC that everything thinks is charming. And it is. Except that the plumbing is old, too, and several times a winter we are without heat and hot water for hours at a time. It was that way […]

Some More About Me

People make all kinds of assumptions about one another out here in cyberspace. I’m pretty new to it all, and I find it all kind of bizarre and frightening. I just started this blog a few months ago. Prior to that, I was aware of personal blogs and had read a few that friends kept, […]
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Good Date, Bad Dater

I twittered about most of this (twittering – so bizarre), btw. I was starting to get annoyed with the freelancer.  We spoke briefly last night and left it that we were going to have dinner tonight.  No where or when.  We were going to speak sometime today to confirm the details. That kind of thing […]
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