Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Silly Questions/Silly Answers

Life is full of silly questions. And even sillier answers. Take this one, for instance: Now, for those of you who don’t speak twitter, let me translate. It was Friday, and on Fridays, some people like to give their friends shout outs (called #FF, which means “follow friday”, or literally = you should follow this […]

A Nation of Prudes

OK, I gotta go there. Anthony Weiner is a moron. He was stupid enough to think that ANYTHING he said in a DM on twitter or a private message on facebook would be actually PRIVATE. Idiot. And for his stupidity, the voters of his district should have the pleasure of voting him out of office. […]

Why a Man Needs to Open his Heart AND Mouth

Today’s post is from Jeffrey Platts, a dating coach who is passionate about helping men and women connect more deeply and authentically, both in life and in love. Jeffrey blends the practical with the spiritual, sharing his own insights from real life adventures in love, dating, and as a lifelong student of spirituality, psychology and […]

Don’t Say Hello

Before I begin today’s topic, just a quick mention that this is another Insomniac Club post. You can follow along in real time via twitter using the #insomniaclub hashtag. Don’t Say Hello There are things I wish I could say to men on the first date. Before the first date. Telepathically as they first lay eyes on me. […]

The Insomniacs Club

Good morning (nearly noon) everyone.  Funny how things work out. We’ve had this Insomniacs Club post scheduled for nearly a week, and I was up for most of the night, tossing and turning. Anyway…  today is the start of a new experiment in group participation.  The very talented Alex over at The Urban Dater did […]