Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.


We’ve all got baggage. Wait, let me take that back.  I know I have a handful of young-ish readers.  Some of you might still be relatively baggage free. The rest of us, we’ve got baggage. Truth is, I don’t think I could respect a person who made it to 25 without collecting some baggage.  The […]

They Are the Real Truth

So yesterday I was replying to comments and I wrote something that was probably more true and important than anything in the post itself: I would never dream of making someone else completely responsible for my happiness, or my emotional well-being. There are things that our partners do to alter our happiness and stability, our […]

The Dates that Weren’t (hahahaha)

I’m laughing at myself right now.  I thought I’d have 2 dates this week – a first date on Wednesday night and a second date (with Mr. Perfect on Paper) tonight. And I was all proud of myself for a) diving right back into my dating routine after that silliness with M and b) keeping […]

Damned If I Know

I think of myself as, primarily, a storyteller. Every once and a while I’ll share a how-to  (which usually is more of a “how I did it” than an actual how-to) but one thing I never do is solicit questions from lovelorn readers. Sometimes, though, readers come to me with their questions. And they know […]

That Truth Thing

I was catching up on my blog reading (OK, the truth is I had horrible insomnia, AGAIN, and was up half the night surfing the net and I’m still nowhere near caught up on my blog reading. There are just so many great blogs to read, I’ll never get caught up.) when I came across […]
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