Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.


And yes, I meant for the title to be all in caps.  It’s for emphasis. So maybe this theory isn’t new.  Maybe someone else has said this before.  But yesterday is the very first time this thought entered my head.  So it’s new for me. But before I share this new theory with you, a […]
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6 Quick Pick-Me-Ups for the Glum Gal

They say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, right?  Well, my good friend Tom Miller aka Tomfoolery wrote a post the other day called 6 Quick Pick-Me-Ups for the Glum Guy and I’ve decided to flatter him in the sincerest way possible. His 6 things were all non-sexual, btw, and so I’m going to […]
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The Only Thing More Annoying…

Last week my good friend Tom Miller aka Tomfoolery over at YourTango wrote a piece about the worst’s most annoying husband.  I guess I’m the last person to hear about this blog. Anyway, it got me to thinking about a friend of mine (actually we’re not close anymore, long story, so not appropriate for this […]
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Debunking Myths – 2 at a Time

Not too long ago I wrote a post about sex myths, or rather, about articles that claimed to debunk commonly held sex myths.  Now here I am attempting to do some debunking of my own. Yesterday I read a couple of things that seemed to be predicated upon common misperceptions of what women do or […]
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Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell – My NUMBER

Oh boy.  Where to start? OK, let’s start here – Only an idiot would ask a question that he didn’t really want to know the answer to.  And yet… Last week Tom Miller  wrote an amusing column on Sexual History and why a woman’s specific number doesn’t count. I’m not going to parse it here. […]