Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Etiquette in the Digital Age – The Poll

So many of you told me (here, on Twitter, via email…) that Monday’s post, Etiquette in the Digital Age, should have been a poll that I felt I had no choice but to go with it.  Sorry if this seems like rehashing the same thing, over and over.  But it will be interesting to see […]
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Etiquette in the Digital Age

Regular readers have heard me rant and rave about how much I hate it when a guy relies on texts as his main means of communication with me.  If I give a guy my phone number it means I want him to call me. And if we’re seeing each other on a regular basis and […]
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Things Friends Say

Another thing most of you don’t know about me, unless you “know” me IRL – I can’t text for shit.  Seriously, any text I send is guaranteed to have at least one incorrect word.  I say incorrect instead of misspelled because I use an iphone which has that handy autocorrect feature.  So when I mistype […]
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Are Men Regressing?

So my phone rang at 7:45 tonight.  It was the guy I thought I had a date with tonight (or last night).  I didn’t answer. The message he left me was kinda funny.  He was upbeat and enthusiastic and said how much he was looking forward to our next date.  And he wanted to know […]
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Early Next Week?

I’m going to be sitting home tonight.  Or maybe not.  Maybe I’ll head out and do something with a friend.  What I won’t be is out on a date. Even though I thought I had one for tonight.  Or maybe it was last night? Late last week I received a text from the guy I […]
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