Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Back in Olden Days

I’m been thinking about this post for days. Trying to figure out how to frame it… Seems like everywhere I look there are posts about how BAD dating is. Not just online dating, but dating in general. I know some people who claim to have given up on it all together. I’ve certainly gone through […]

Dumb and Dumber

Fact: I like men. Fact: I don’t have as much patience for dating as I used to. Maybe that’s a good thing. Or a bad thing. Whichever. So as I mentioned, I spent some time this weekend hanging with a girlfriend comparing our Friday night dating disasters. My story was short. Short, silly and pathetic. […]

The Ick Factor in Dating

First things first – I’m using the phrase ick factor because that’s the phrase that came to mind when I sat down to write. I’m not subtly referencing a SATC episode or a dumbass political comment. Those things just happen to come up with you google ick factor. So… the other day I got a text […]

People Want You to Be Who They Think You Are

I have this weird habit. When I overhear someone say something interesting, I text it to myself. So that I’ll remember. The results of which is a bizarre, completely nonsensical text conversation with myself, full of random snippets of other people’s conversations. Some of it is funny. And some it is seems like it could […]

Speaking of Texts… I don’t sext, I don’t flirt text and don’t get me started on booty texts

Wow, I loved the comments from yesterday’s post. Sorry I haven’t had the chance to reply.  Can I blame the rain? I know that some people really like texting as a form of communication.  And hey, I get it.  It’s super-convenient. I just don’t think it’s the most effective means of communicating between two people […]