Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Random Thoughts on a Saturday Morning + a Song

I’m a pretty open person (the real me – not the blog me).  When I’m communicating with a new guy online, I always tell him, “ask me anything”.  As far as I’m concerned, there really are no topics in my life that are off limits (although, there are some that are unpleasant and others that […]
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Dating – Your Path to Salvation

I stayed up last night to watch President Obama on Leno.  It was probably the first time I watched The Tonight Show in 5 or 6 years.  I really don’t like Leno.  But I wanted to see Obama and so I made myself stay up and watch  (even though I really wasn’t feeling well and should have […]
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I Choose My Choice

So this morning I was surfing the net when I came across this article in the New York Observer that kind of stopped me in my tracks.   Sure, these aren’t new issues, but the piece struck a chord with me. I’m sure there are already a lot of women writing about this (I found the article […]
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Last Single Girl Standing

So, the other day I got a lovely message from a reader.  In the message he said that he found it odd that I never mentioned any female friends in my posts.  It wasn’t a criticism.  He was just remarking on it. Well, it got me to thinking.  I know I mention friends sometimes, and […]

Fun Ride

I just came in from a walk.  While I was out I was listening to Broken English on my iphone. I have a deep and abiding affection for Marianne Faithful.  The Ballad of Lucy Jordan has been one of my favorite songs for years and today I found myself singing along and replaying it over […]