"Single" Can Mean a Lot of Things
So yeah, I’m single and I date a lot. Big whoop. Girls like me are a dime a dozen. Guys, too. What I find more fascinating are people who don’t date. And I don’t mean fascinating in a judgmental way. I mean honest to goodness – fascinating. The non-daters I’m thinking of seem to fall [...]
Learning to Read
Without giving too much away, Lostplum and I have been working (with varying levels of diligence) on a couple of new projects together. One of them is Cupcakes & Cupid (Hey, single New Yorkers, have you gotten your tickets yet? Guys, we haven’t forgotten about you. You can come to the party on the 13th.*) [...]
Be Yourself
You all know how much I love dating and relationship experts. I love them. I especially love the way they give completely contradictory advice, with a straight face, and then expect people to take them seriously. And sadly, people do. Take them seriously. Because so many of us are so freaking desperate to find love [...]
I’m Being A Jerk
A friend of mine is getting married next month. A good friend. And I still haven’t RSVP’d to the wedding. The RSVP by date was days ago. Let’s face it, I’m being a rude jerk. I adore this friend. I helped her pick out her wedding dress. I’m really, really happy for her. I’m not [...]
Never Been Kissed
Alright, let’s see if I can pull together all of the random things I’m thinking right now (this is part poll/part rant). By now, I doubt there are too many people who don’t know who Susan Boyle is. I first saw the clip of her singing last week and I think I actually got teary-eyed. [...]




