Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

"Single" Can Mean a Lot of Things

So yeah, I’m single and I date a lot.  Big whoop. Girls like me are a dime a dozen.  Guys, too. What I find more fascinating are people who don’t date. And I don’t mean fascinating in a judgmental way.  I mean honest to goodness – fascinating. The non-daters I’m thinking of seem to fall […]

Learning to Read

Without giving too much away, Lostplum and I have been working (with varying levels of diligence) on a couple of new projects together.  One of them is Cupcakes & Cupid (Hey, single New Yorkers, have you gotten your tickets yet?  Guys, we haven’t forgotten about you.  You can come to the party on the 13th.*) […]

Be Yourself

You all know how much I love dating and relationship experts.  I love them.  I especially love the way they give completely contradictory advice, with a straight face, and then expect people to take them seriously.  And sadly, people do.  Take them seriously.  Because so many of us are so freaking desperate to find love […]
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I’m Being A Jerk

A friend of mine is getting married next month.  A good friend. And I still haven’t RSVP’d to the wedding.  The RSVP by date was days ago. Let’s face it, I’m being a rude jerk. I adore this friend.  I helped her pick out her wedding dress.  I’m really, really happy for her. I’m not […]
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Never Been Kissed

Alright, let’s see if I can pull together all of the random things I’m thinking right now (this is part poll/part rant).  By now, I doubt there are too many people who don’t know who Susan Boyle is.  I first saw the clip of her singing last week and I think I actually got teary-eyed. […]
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