Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

What About Us?

Sometimes I read stuff that I really want to comment on, but it takes me a few days to figure out exactly what I want to say. And then there are other times when I read something so smart, so important that I realize I have nothing really substantive to add.  This is one of […]
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Living for Ourselves

Perhaps I should I have a rule, only blog when I’m clearheaded.  I fear that this post won’t make sense to anyone but me.  But I’ve given it a lot of thought and so here goes (note to my non-Twitter following readers, I have the flu or something that feels an awful lot like the […]
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What’s In Your Mirror?

Last night I was out drinking with a couple of my very smart friends.  We were talking about dating and relationships (really, I do talk about other things, sometimes). and @iamalejandra said (to someone else, not me), “Let me ask, who do you see when you look in your mirror?  I think that every time […]
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Too Much and Not Enough

I did meet one man during my free weekend on Match.  We’ve been emailing just about every day, and earlier this week he asked me out for Friday (last) night.  I said no. I had 2 things on my calendar for last night and was looking forward to both – a party and a friend’s […]
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Hurry Up and Get Married Quickly

This is SO not about what you think it is. This is National Singles’ Week and so it might seem like an odd time for me to be writing a post about marriage, but I’m an odd chick. I was browsing YourTango as I drank my coffee and noticed this post, Is One Month Into […]
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