Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Thought I’d Share

I know that (some of) my long-term readers are tired of hearing me vent about this. But it’s a topic that other people keep bringing up. I’d be perfectly happy to let it die. Really. Before I go on, and just for clarity, here is how I feel about marriage and the whole, “this is […]

Stop Wagging Your Finger at Me

I didn’t want to write this post. In fact, just yesterday I said that I was not going to write this post. But here I am… writing it. Because I’m just that irritated. I’m so annoyed, in fact, that I’m pretty damn close to doing a mass purge of my twitter account. Because I don’t […]

What is Age Appropriate?

So, a few weeks ago I was out with friends, at a bar, and I overheard a women (who was a good 10-15 years my junior) say that she didn’t think it was age appropriate for older women to be out drinking in bars, acting like they were still in their 20s. She was a […]

Fun with Science aka Why I’m Still Single

So lots of people have been posting and tweeting about this really cool article in Scientific American, What Attachment Theory Can Teach About Love and Relationships. I first read about it in Jezebel a couple of days ago and immediately clicked through, read it and did their handy, dandy little test. Speaking of which, since […]

There are a Lot of Different Normals

So I’m packing for my move.  And I’m trying to be as unsentimental as possible. This isn’t all that hard for me as I’m not a particularly sentimental person.  I’ve never been one to save ticket stubs, playbills or stuff like that. So far, I’ve chucked out hundreds of old photos (because if I haven’t […]