Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

A Matter of Trust (Trust?)

I was supposed to have a date with Mr. Nicepost tonight.  Was.  I got an email from him early this afternoon saying that he was sick.  The flu.  He suggested we get together Friday.  But I have family stuff this weekend and so… People get sick all of the time.  It happens. And yet my [...]

Dating and Other Nonsense

It could be hard, reading my few last posts, to get a sense of what’s going on in my dating life right now.  So I thought I’d write a quickie and give you an update. Not much. I met a seemingly nice, normal, intellingent, handsome guy on DownToEarth.com (you can read my post Online Dating [...]

Sick

I had a pretty awesome post all thought out for today with a link and all kinds of astute observations about people and the strange ways we act.   But that’s going to have to wait, at least a day or two, maybe more.  Truth is, my health has gotten a little funky again and that [...]

Weekend Update

I’m so sorry I’ve gone so long without posting, especially as I have so much to write about.  I had a great first date on Friday night.  And I really want to update the Ex Files.  Plus, there are some great comments I’d like to reply to, but honestly I’m just not that functional right [...]

So We Talked About It

I was driving myself crazy.  I wanted to see Mr. Potential yesterday because there were those 2 big topics lingering in my mind (his suggestion that we spend the holidays together and my hiding my online profile).  And the longer I thought about them the bigger they were going to seem.  I don’t like to [...]