Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

My Nondate

Last night I had a nondate. A couple of weeks ago I was supposed to meet this guy for drinks, and he emailed early in the day saying he was still interested in meeting me but had had a couple of promising dates with a new girl and so was thinking that our “date” would […]
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Learning The Hard Way

There are a lot of dating blogs out here on the interwebz.  Lots of blogs.  Lots of bloggers.  Lots of advice.  I don’t tend to give much advice.  And when I do it’s usually the product of a hard-learned lesson. I’m willing to tell you what I know doesn’t work (because I’ve failed miserably) and […]
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Let Your Fingers Do the Talking?

This seems to be the week that everyone’s writing about texting and dating. has an article that gives an overview of “High-Tech Dating” on their Happen site (it’s pretty wish-wishy, but it’s  And has a post called To Text or Not To Text:  Dating Rules for a New World which starts with […]
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MEN, Men, men

So many men, it really is a wonder I keep track of them all.  You’d think that with this many guys buzzing about I’d be getting laid, but no.  They come, they go. None of them stick around long enough for that. So the TALL man followed up his next day text with an email. […]
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Eeny, Meeny, Miny, Moe

So now that I’m back to square one with new guys I have a couple of dates scheduled for this week plus a few other guys in the hopper. I thought I’d try something new and give you a preview of this week’s dates. Bachelor #1 is a type that I go for a lot […]
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