Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

I wouldn’t join any club that would have me as a member…

We’ve all heard the old Groucho Marx line, “I wouldn’t join any club that would have me as a member”. It’s funny. And maybe, not so funny. In the world of dating, it’s frequently true. I can’t tell you how many slightly (or not so slightly) overweight men and women I know who say they […]

Important Things I’ve Learned from One Night Stands

I can still remember the conversation.  I’d met a friend for happy hour at the Boathouse in Central Park.  Not a usual hang out, but it was the first really warm day of summer and we wanted to be outside and enjoy the park. It had been weeks since we’d spoken and the first thing […]

Sex, Sex, Sex (again)

A couple of days ago I got a message from a twitter friend. He’d been listening to the radio and heard some sex stat that didn’t sound quite right to him and he was wondering where it might have come from. Well, I immediately sent him a link to the American Sex Survey, source of […]

The Best Sex of Your Life Giveway – We Have a Winner

As promised, will be sending one of my lucky readers a copy of The Best Sex of Your Life. The winner of this giveaway is Sandyvs (and not just because she entered twice). Thanks to everyone for entering, and please keep playing.  I have several more giveaways coming up in the next few months. […]

Maybe Not So Empty?

I had my 4th date with Mr. Midwest last night.  It was nice. Good.  Easy. Fun. Sorry, not feeling particularly articulate on the subject.  The truth is, I have absolutely no idea what to say.  We have fun together.  We enjoy each other’s company (well, I enjoy his company and he seems to enjoy my […]