Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Good Sex Bad Sex

From: Inquiring Mind Subject: Good Sex Bad Sex Message Body: I’ve looked at your blog and seen a lot on good sex and bad sex. Could you break it down for me as to what is good sex and what men you’ve had great sex with do differently than the ones who were not so […]

Sex, Lies and Linklove

I’ve been collecting a long list of posts/topics to write about. And each day the list just gets longer and longer. And… the truth is, I’m still working my ass off to get caught up on work/writing from when I wasn’t feeling well. So, I just don’t have the time/energy to blog as much as […]

Should You Reveal The Number Of People You’ve Slept With?

I couldn’t resist. Especially after watching the video. At first I was in complete agreement with YourTango‘s Experts. And then they got stupid.  Watch: So, the correct answer is NO. But if that doesn’t work, the correct LIE is 8. Because any number higher than 10 makes you sound like a slut. I swear my […]

Close Your Eyes and Think of England

Before I start today’s post, I’d like to kindly request that all of my IRL friends and acquaintances stop reading RIGHT NOW. Today’s post will provide a level of detail about my actual sex life that most definitely qualifies as TMI. I doubt that I could look any readers of this post in the eye, […]

Love the One You’re With

It had never occurred to me, as a child or a teen, to question the concept of monogamy. My family and upbringing was fairly conservative. And yet, it was the 70s, so lots of other ways of looking at the world were sneaking into my brain via music and tv. Whether I realized it or […]