Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

I Think I Made A Big Mistake

It was Sunday night when I told Mr. Potential that I hid my online profile (and I was so impressed with how the conversation went).  He spent the night at my place and left early for work. It is now Wednesday afternoon.  We’ve been in touch by text and email since then, all very pleasant […]

So We Talked About It

I was driving myself crazy.  I wanted to see Mr. Potential yesterday because there were those 2 big topics lingering in my mind (his suggestion that we spend the holidays together and my hiding my online profile).  And the longer I thought about them the bigger they were going to seem.  I don’t like to […]

December 1st is World AIDS Day

I could sit here and write my own post about how important it is to recognize this day. I write openly about the fact that I am sexually active, and so therefore this is an issue that affects me. However, I just read a great post over on 20/40.com on this topic, and so I […]
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Making My Own Space

Last night, one of the many things I blathered about was the fact that I am constantly (re)negotiating what is on and off limits for me to write about. That might seem bizarre to some of you. It’s my blog. My rules. What’s the issue? This is a really big deal for me. How much […]
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Waking Up With Someone

I can’t imagine living somewhere that didn’t have seasons. I love it when the leaves change colors. I love the cool spring nights. I love the snow. I even love the sticky New York summers, when I need to hang out by the river to stay cool. But I do hate how cold the mornings […]
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