I’m not going to go on one of my rants about experts and others idiots who write books about dating.  I’m not.  I’ve just been noticing lately a lot of articles and posts, both in blogs and mainstream publications about whether or not women should be waiting before having sex with a new guy. Some [...]

All day long I’ve been screwing up meeting and appointments.  Pretty much since the first thing this morning. I just couldn’t wrap my head around the fact that today was the 8th (Well, as I probably won’t get this out til the 9th, technically, yesterday was the 8th.). Anyway… I thought I’d survived the day [...]

I’m going to get so much shit for writing this, but I don’t care.  It’s true and it’s what I’m thinking now and I don’t even think it’s all that mean or controversial.  But if I hurt anyone’s feelings then let me say, “sorry”, in advance. I had the opportunity to catch up with one [...]

I’m a child of the 70s and sometimes the timing of my birth and life really pisses me off.  The economy was pretty damn sucky when I got out of college (not as bad as it is now, but pretty bad). AIDS came into the national consciousness just as I was becoming interested in sex.  [...]

Last Wednesday, Twanna Hines had a great post on her blog, Funky Brown Chick. It was called, Is Good Sex a Basic Human Need? I knew, just as soon as I read it, that I wanted to write something on the topic.  But the more I thought about it the less sure I was about [...]