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Debunking Myths – 2 at a Time

Not too long ago I wrote a post about sex myths, or rather, about articles that claimed to debunk commonly held sex myths.  Now here I am attempting to do some debunking of my own. Yesterday I read a couple of things that seemed to be predicated upon common misperceptions of what women do or […]
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Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell – My NUMBER

Oh boy.  Where to start? OK, let’s start here – Only an idiot would ask a question that he didn’t really want to know the answer to.  And yet… Last week Tom Miller  wrote an amusing column on Sexual History and why a woman’s specific number doesn’t count. I’m not going to parse it here. […]

Sex Myths(?) aka Late Afternoon Ramblings

I’m always curious about articles that claim to be debunking commonly held myths.  My first question is always, ‘how many people actually believe these myths’?  Anyway, that’s me and how my mind works.  Always questioning. Today there was an article in YourTango called Top Myths Men (and Women) Have About Sex.  The premise was that […]
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Sex Is…

Yesterday Jezebel ran a piece called Few People Agree On the Definition of Sex. They covered an issue that I’ve been meaning to write about for a while, namely that different people mean different things when they say the word sex. For some people, sex includes oral sex.  For others it doesn’t.  There are actually […]

Points for Love

Last week I mentioned the beer and wings get together we had with guys from the man panel.  Well, at some point during the night I found myself talking about good sex (go figure).  I’m not sure how it got started, but the premise was basically that a person could have amazing sex with someone […]