Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

“If I had to be married to have sex, I would probably be married, as would every guy I know.”

So, one of the many cool things I saw/read via twitter yesterday was this article in YourTango, 5 Reasons We’re Marrying After 30.  30, I guess, is considered “old” by lots of people and  the current average age of people getting married is 27.1 for men and 25.3. I gotta be honest, those numbers seem […]

How To Find A Great F*Buddy (it ain’t easy), Part 7

It was winter. That I’m certain of. And I’d just gotten a promotion at work which meant even longer hours and more stress. I half considered giving up my search for a fuckbuddy and just giving in to a life of celibacy, at least in the short-run, but I’d figured I’d try for a little […]

5 Reasons Why I Hate Hotel Sex

Not too long ago I started writing a rant about how much I hate hotel sex.  Sometimes I do that. Start posts and save the unfinished drafts.  I figured I’d go back and finish the hotel sex post one day when the mood struck me (or when I had nothing better to write about).  Anyway, […]

How To Find A Great F*Buddy (it ain’t easy), Part 3

So I knew I wanted to find a fuckbuddy. But I didn’t know where I should look. I’d seen plenty of ads for Adult Friend Finder (no link, because it’s NSFW) and so I figured I’d give it a try. I lasted about a week. First off, a pretty high percentage of the guys posted […]
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We All Make Compromises, But…

We all make compromises.  Well, most of us do.  Life isn’t perfect.  Heck, sometimes it isn’t even fair. As adults we learn to make the best of what we have (I’m so not a fan of making lemonade out of lemons.  I don’t see why I can’t appreciate a lemon for what it is.). That […]
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