Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Online Dating… So Many Choices!

Recently I wrote about the only dating sites I’m currently using ( and chemistry) and why. But of course, that led to people sending me question about other sites. So, let’s just get it all out there (and hopefully people will dive in with their experiences in the comments). There are dozens of online dating […]

This Can’t Be Right, Can It? (American Sex Survey)

So last week Tressugar referenced a statistic from the American Sex Survey that seemed utterly implausible to me, that only 34% of women thought about sex daily. She thought it seemed pretty dubious, too, and asked her readers to weigh in. I was intrigued and so I opened up the survey and started reading (at […]

Nothing Risque, Nothing Gained

I’ve been a big fan of the site Toy With Me for a while now, so I jumped at the chance to do a site review* for them. Like the name suggests, they do sex toy reviews on high end sex toys (like the LELO NEA). I like the reviews and as someone who’s shelled out […]
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Rain Check?

“Does a rain check mean ‘yes, but later’ or ‘no’. Got one today and having a hell of a time figuring it out.” I received this question in a DM (private message on twitter) the other day and immediately knew I’d have to write a post about it. I didn’t realize, at the time, that […]

Ordering Off the Man Menu

It occurred to me the other day that if I could order up my “perfect man”, my dream guy, I’d have absolutely no idea where to start. Sure, I need him to be kind and smart and funny and ethical.  And we need to be able to have FUN together (of both the sexual and […]