Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

I Don’t Get People

Jeez, I hope my friend doesn’t mind my telling this story.  I’ve been thinking about it for the last couple of days and I just have to mention it. A good male friend of mine went out on a date a few weeks ago.  It was a set up.  He was set up by another […]
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My "Worst Date Ever"

I get asked about this a lot – My worst date ever.  It’s kind of funny, because until I started writing this blog, I’d never really thought about it.  I’ve had so many bad dates in my life that it never really occured to me to compare the bad against the bad and come up […]
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So, so far, no one has taken me up on th Set Up SINgleGIRL challenge.  I’m not surprised.  I mean, even if you’ve been reading me for a while, it’d be hard for you to know who I might like and what I’m looking for.  I’ve written about dealbreakers and my needs and wants from […]
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This came up as an idea/possibility a while ago.  A reader/fellow blogger commented that she knew the perfect guy for me and I said I’d be open to meeting him.  And then nothing ever came of it. So, since I’m littering up my blog today with posts that are barely posts, I thought I’d throw […]
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Mishaps Happen and the Magic of 3

So I had to cancel my date tonight. I live in one of those wonderful old buildings in NYC that everything thinks is charming. And it is. Except that the plumbing is old, too, and several times a winter we are without heat and hot water for hours at a time. It was that way […]
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