Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Quick Dating Update

There are no second dates on the horizon.  None.  I’m not going to see the heavy drinker again.  Or the recently divorced guy who just moved to the city (Mr. Red Flag).  Or Mr. Early Next Week. I was supposed to have a couple of other first dates over the weekend but there were scheduling […]
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Saturday’s Score = .500

I was a very busy SINgleGIRL on Saturday with two dates scheduled back-to-back.  First up was my second date with a guy I first went out with a week or so ago. He’s going to need a nickname because we have another date scheduled for tomorrow night.  For now I’m going to call him Mr. […]
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Are Men Regressing? Redux

I caught a lot of flack for the post Are Men Regressing? (Ah hell, I’ve just been catching a lot of flack lately.  I’m not giving advice people, just telling you about MY life.  I’m not suggesting you live by my rules.  What, exactly, is so irksome about that?).  Anyway, after a while I decided […]

Rules Are Made to Be Broken

I’ve never actually taken direct quotes from a real guy’s email and used it here without his permission (the Ex Files was done with M’s permission, which in hindsight was seriously fucked up).  But I just can’t resist.  This is too much, too ridiculous, IMO. If I meet a guy online and he asks me […]

Maybe He’s a Duck

I had a pretty good second date with The European last week.  He was charming and thoughtful and our conversation flowed easily from topic to topic.  We shared our dinners, casually tasting each other’s choices (the food was yummy, he chose a good date spot).  Towards the end of the meal he apologized for eating […]
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