Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

There’s Always More to the Story

On Tuesday, I wrote about my cancelled date with Mr. Nicepost and the way I felt about it (stressed, distrustful, ashamed at my own lack of trust).  I tried to be as open and honest with you as I could be about my feelings, while at the same time leaving out lots of details about […]
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Still a Haze

I’m just gonna be honest with you and admit that I’m still in a bit of a haze.  I was out late last night and one of the many things that suck about getting older is that I can’t go out and have lots of fun and lots to drink and then wake up early […]
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So Much For My Busy Weekend of Dates (and stuff)

So, earlier this week I was a busy, busy SINgleGIRL.  Emailing and texting and talking with boys about dates for this weekend.  It looked like I had first dates on Thursday night(I kinda consider Thursday night the unofficial start of the weekend) and Saturday day (today) and then a second date, probably, on Saturday night […]
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First dates.  Let’s face it, they’re weird.  You get together with someone you don’t know (in my case, usually over drinks) to hang out/talk/get to know each other a little bit while you’re each thinking the same thing:  Is this someone I want to have sex with? Because, really, that’s what chemistry is.  At it’s […]

Spoiled For Choice

Not too long ago a reader made a comment along the lines of, you’re obviously too picky – you should have met someone by now since you go out with so many men (I’m paraphrasing). I’m sure there are plenty of people who read my blog and think the same thing.  That I’m too picky […]