Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

3 for 3. More or Less.

I’ve had 3 good first dates in the last week.  More or less. The first was with the one and only guy I met on Chemistry.com (yep, 3 months and I only met one guy).  We were supposed to meet over a month ago and then I got sick.  And then he was a away […]

Anatomy of a Bad Date

I’ve been a little too overwhelmed with my life lately to keep up with my online dating stuff.  I know that someday soon I’m going to have to schedule a few hours to sit down and clear out the inboxes (Chemistry, especially, will take a lot of time). I’m not complaining.  It’s part of the […]

Not According to Plan

I’ve been off-line for most of the last few days.  Health stuff, sorta. Anyways, I also had to miss 2 friend’s parties (which I was very sad about) and cancel my 2nd date with Mr. Midwest (our 3rd date went well and he asked me out again as we kissed outside my building at the […]

Quick Dating Update

I had a pretty good first date the other night.  The guy, who I’ll call Mr. Midwest, was more attractive in person than in his pics.  I actually didn’t recognize him when he walked in and sat down next to me at the bar.  It’s nice to see a guy under-promise and over-deliver, for a […]

The Dates that Weren’t (hahahaha)

I’m laughing at myself right now.  I thought I’d have 2 dates this week – a first date on Wednesday night and a second date (with Mr. Perfect on Paper) tonight. And I was all proud of myself for a) diving right back into my dating routine after that silliness with M and b) keeping […]