Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Living with the Consequences

So I was having dinner with family, and friends of the family. ‘Tis the season. The night was going well enough. I’ve finally learned to hold my tongue and not take offense when people say offensive things. Just better to get along. A friend of the family asked if she could share a problem with […]

Kick Him To the Curb?

So once again I feel like the universe is trying to tell me something. But first the story. Last night I was talking on the phone with one of my best friends in the world (it kills me that he left NYC a decade ago). We were talking about something going on in my life, […]
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A while back I read an article, or maybe it was a blog post, that said that men married the woman they were with when they were ready to get married.  I don’t think I blogged about it at the time.  Maybe I did. Anyway, it’s a concept I’ve been thinking a lot about. That […]
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