Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Speaking of Perspective… Faking It

So remember that AMAZING post by Mr. Smarty Pants Dennis Hong, That “Amazing First Date We Went on Kind of Sucked For Me. You don’t? Well go read it! In short, he talked about the very real phenomena of being on a date, realizing you’re not really into the person but going through the motions […]

Bizarro Bimbo Bozo

YES! I’m back on schedule and that means today we have a guest post (I’m smiling so hard my face hurts). Today’s amazing guest author is Julie who blogs regularly at Dating Sure is a Whole Lot of What? Not! Bizarro Bimbo Bozo My plunging neckline is the first hint of how the evening will […]

I’d Rather Be Safe

There’s this guy I’ve been meaning to meet for a couple of weeks. I would have gotten together with him last weekend, but I wasn’t feeling well. Anyway, we’re trying to set plans for next week.  And he keeps suggesting that we take a ride out to the beach. And since NYC is in the […]

Breaking My Rules

I have a date tonight. A first date with a man I met online. And we’re going out to dinner. Now, anyone who’s been reading this blog for a while will know that this is something I NEVER do (notice the caps, bold and underline). I’m a let’s-meet-for-drinks gal. Or maybe coffee. Or a walk […]

And He Lost Me

It seems that, a few weeks ago, I’d given my phone number to a couple of men.  This was back when I was still kinda seeing Mr. Midwest and trying to figure out where that was going. Anyway, these two guys both started calling me in the past week.  Each with his own apologies and […]