Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

It Doesn’t Matter Why

So, last week, I got to catch up with an old friend. One of those people I don’t speak to nearly as often as I should/wish I did. And, not that I minded (much), but we had the same old conversation. Her, “I just don’t get it. Why would he do that?” Me, “It doesn’t […]

You Filthy Slut

I doubt there’s anyone reading this who hasn’t heard about Mel Gibson’s abusive, racist rants at his ex-girlfriend. The guy’s a real charmer. But hardly one of a kind. Be honest.  How many of us have found ourselves in relationships with men (or women) who we thought, at first, were really decent human beings only […]

Why Do You Ask?

First, let me state that this post is not meant to offend anyone.  Anyone who reads it and is subsequently offended should, perhaps, set aside some time for self-reflection as the only people who would be offended by this post are those who are full of shit.  And if you’re full of shit and I’m […]
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Can I Have a Different Reward?

I was a in a lousy mood today (totally provoked, btw) and taking it out on my Twitter followers.  No, I’m not going to take it out on you, too.  I’ve vented enough.  Anyway, @derekscruggs saw me complaining and replied,”You know how the journey is the reward? Sometimes it’s the punishment too. :|” I’ve been […]
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Little Rant

Most online dating sites let you see who’s been looking at your profile (and they’ll let you browse privately, without showing up in anyone’s records if you prefer).  Anyway, sometimes I’ll notice the same guy showing up in my “who’s viewing you” list, day after day.  I usually just ignore it, assuming the guy is […]