Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

The Chase

So here I am, genuinely confused.  Well, not exactly confused.  But of two minds. As some of you might know from an earlier post, I’m a fan of VSB (anyone who takes offense at their humor should send complaints to them, not me).  Earlier this week they did a post on why women shouldn’t approach […]
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An Unpopular Opinion (?)

Men cheat.  Women cheat.  People cheat.  And as we’ve discussed, most of us believe that the majority of people would probably cheat if they thought they could get away with it.  In other words, the instinct is there for almost everyone. Now, I’ve already discussed my inclination for open relationships (many times, and no this […]
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Do You Have a Type?

I’ve been dating for a long time.  A looong time.  Some might say, too long. I don’t like to put numbers on it all.  That’d be crass.  But in my many years of dating, there have been quite a few men who I went out with more than just 3 or 4 times.  In other […]
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I Love You, But I Love Another More?

I’m not a big fan of reality shows (with a few exceptions – I’m completely in love with Top Chef and had a mild flirtation with the Millionaire Matchmaker, but couldn’t stand her past season 1).  The shows that I really don’t get are the Bachelor and the Bachelorette.  The whole formula just doesn’t make […]
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? Seeking…Hey, Where’s My Box

So, by now all of my regular readers know that I’m a big fan of online dating.  For all of its faults, I think it’s a pretty awesome way to meet potential dates. But that’s not what this week’s poll is about. Recently I was checking out a new-ish site (I check them all out, […]
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