Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Blind Date?

As I’ve mentioned, I started online dating back in the dark ages, when very few people had their pictures posted.  Not only didn’t people have their pictures posted, but most of us didn’t have a digital version of ourselves to send as an attachment in an email.  I remember one guy asking me for one […]

We All Make Compromises, But…

We all make compromises.  Well, most of us do.  Life isn’t perfect.  Heck, sometimes it isn’t even fair. As adults we learn to make the best of what we have (I’m so not a fan of making lemonade out of lemons.  I don’t see why I can’t appreciate a lemon for what it is.). That […]
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Best Dating Advice Ever…

With an opening like that, how could I not read the article?  Turns out the post, Best Dating Advice Ever From Michelle Obama, in YourTango was a really great one and I did think her advice was pretty damn awesome: “Cute’s good. But cute only lasts for so long, and then it’s, Who are you […]

Can a Leopard Change His/Her Spots?

You all know how much I like hearing from you.  I love getting your messages (it’s easy to reach me via the OnSugar system, Twitter DM, facebook).  Not so much the angry/nonsensical tirades in the comments section, but they’re easy enough to delete. Well, a couple days ago I got a message that kind of […]
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Do You Recycle Sex?

I have a new favorite phrase:  recycled sex.  Lots of us have had it.  It’s ex-sex, aka sex with someone you used to be in a relationship with. Like most things related to sex, people have very strong feelings about this.  Some people think it’s OK, some don’t.  I fall somewhere in between. My views […]
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