Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Equal Opportunity?

I’ve never made much of the fact that I’m an equal opportunity dater; that is; I date men of all races and ethnicities.  This isn’t lip service.  This is my reality. I’ve had this blog for less than 2 years.  In that time, I’ve written about a lot of dates, a lot of guys.  I’m […]

Sex, Sex, Sex (again)

A couple of days ago I got a message from a twitter friend. He’d been listening to the radio and heard some sex stat that didn’t sound quite right to him and he was wondering where it might have come from. Well, I immediately sent him a link to the American Sex Survey, source of […]

Why Are We Even Talking About This – Safe Sex?

I’m a 39 (weeks away from 40) year old women who enjoys a healthy sex life and not with a single, long-term partner. I don’t think of myself as promiscuous. But the fact that I have anywhere from 2-5 new partners a year + a fb that I’ve been seeing for years (who I don’t […]

Dead or Alive

Let’s cut to the chase, shall we?  There seems to be 2 schools of thought. In one, people break up and never, ever, EVER, speak to their ex again.  Jane Wonder wrote a fabulous post on this and labeled the method, Dead to Me (I’ve since mentioned it repeatedly on this site). Other people try to […]

The Modern-Day Stepford Wives?

First, a lesson:  never blog when you’re too tired to read. Baaaad idea. Please accept my apologies and this, my revised post/poll for today: So early last night I decided to turn on the TV, something I don’t often do unless there’s something specific I want to watch. I’m not sure what possessed me. The […]