Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Take this Sex Toy and Shove it!

I get a lot of, um, interesting things in my inbox. Like you wouldn’t believe. I try to stay on top of it all (it is a lot, and I’ve learned that sometimes it’s hard to quickly tell the wheat from the chaff) but mostly I fail. Anyway, one of the more random things that […]

Warts and All?

Warning: It’s been a few days/nights since I’ve slept. When I say I haven’t slept, I mean, I haven’t slept. Not, not well. Last night, since I was so sleep deprived, I stopped work at 7pm (really early for me) and went to bed at 10. I tossed and turned and listened to podcasts until about […]

The Princess Syndrome and Getting Spoiled…WTF?

So here’s the thing, I really don’t get it.  I’m not saying I don’t get it to be provocative or funny.  I really, really don’t get it. In the comments to this week’s poll, a reader mentioned ‘The Princess Syndrome’ “where we’re made to feel like the best guy is the one that lavishes you […]

Never Love Someone More Than They Love You… What about the opposite?

So I was talking with a friend, catching up (I know it sounds like all I do is date and socialize, but that’s just because I leave the other parts of my life off the blog. In reality, I haven’t seen much of my friends lately, and I’ve been missing them). Somewhere in our conversation […]

I’m In Love With a Friend… What the Hell?

There are many, many things I can’t wrap my head around. One of which is the whole, “I fell in love with a friend” phenomenon. I just don’t get it. For instance, this post in YourTango (seems like sensible advice, if such a thing were to actually occur). Or the classic sitcom silliness of Monica […]