Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

How About a Drink?

My preference, for first dates, is to meet for a drink. It can be coffee, wine, beer. But, really, I don’t want to commit to more than a beverage on a first date. It’s a time commitment thing. And usually, when a guy asks me out, if he doesn’t explicitly says, “a drink”, I suggest […]

A Little Bit of Facebook Stalking Never Hurt Anyone…

Anyone who knows me (and this includes people who know me IRL and those with whom I have strictly online relationships) knows that I’m not a fan of facebook. As I’ve said many times, I think facebook is the devil (and, unfortunately, a necessary evil). So this whole concept of facebook stalking is hard for […]

Giving Up is Hard to Do

But first, because I can’t help myself I know that many of my readers are way too young to get the reference, but it’s one of those random songs from my childhood, forever playing on the oldies station in my head. So yeah, breaking up is hard to do. But for me, giving up is […]

How far would you travel for potential love?

I’ll admit it, I’ve been sucking at the online dating thing lately. To be honest, I’ve just been overwhelmed with life, work and health stuff since the beginning of the month. I want to date. I just haven’t been making the time. Instead, I’ve been letting messages sit in my online dating inbox, unanswered. Which […]

Dumper Or Dumpee: Which is Hotter?

Who’lda thunk it – I have something in common with David Brooks. We’re both utterly fascinated by social science research. A couple of days ago he wrote about a bunch of mildly bizarre, recent studies. One of which caught my eye. Would you rather date someone who dumped his or her last partner or someone […]