Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Was it real for you?

I had to go there. Last week there were a couple/few articles bouncing around about how men sometimes fake orgasms, too. Even Fox News got into the game (I couldn’t resist the opportunity to link to Fox, I don’t why). Which got me wondering: a) Was this news? b) Really, was this news? Once again, […]

The Best Sex of Your Life Giveaway

I’ve got good news and bad news.  Good news first, I’m doing another giveaway and this time it’s with the fabulous folks over at SheKnows.com.  SheKnows worked together with Dan and Jennifer on The Best Sex of Your Life. From the press blurb: Featuring plenty of tips guaranteed to make you blush, you’ll learn to get […]

O No, Say it Ain’t So?

I’ve written about this before, I don’t fake it.  Ever. Every time a woman fakes it she’s letting the man in her life believe that she’s satisfied. When she’s not. Which is most likely going to lead the man in question to continue to not satisfy her (rather than step up/change his, um, game). This […]

No, It Wasn’t Good For Me

You know I love my friends over at YourTango.  As far as lady mags go, theirs is pretty cool (I have nothing against women or magazines, but magazines that target women tend to be overly obsessed with celebrities, make-up, fashion and ‘pleasing your man’ – shit I really don’t care that much about).  Today they […]