Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Close Your Eyes and Think of England

Before I start today’s post, I’d like to kindly request that all of my IRL friends and acquaintances stop reading RIGHT NOW. Today’s post will provide a level of detail about my actual sex life that most definitely qualifies as TMI. I doubt that I could look any readers of this post in the eye, […]

The Young and The Sexless?

Gosh darnit, those crazy kids have gone and surprised us again. The latest survey shows a significant decline in teen sexual activity. Specifically: “The latest round of the quaintly named National Survey of Family Growth found that among 15-to-24-year-olds, 29 percent of females and 27 percent of males reported no sexual contact with another person […]

This Can’t Be Right, Can It? (American Sex Survey)

So last week Tressugar referenced a statistic from the American Sex Survey that seemed utterly implausible to me, that only 34% of women thought about sex daily. She thought it seemed pretty dubious, too, and asked her readers to weigh in. I was intrigued and so I opened up the survey and started reading (at […]

Special is a Very Subjective Thing

Let’s see if I can write this post without embarrassing myself to death. Last night I got together with Lostplum and Little Miss Sarcasm (and our lovely helper Rick, mustn’t forget him) to work on our exciting new project.  I can’t wait to tell you about it.  We should be ready to release some of […]
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Sex Is…

Yesterday Jezebel ran a piece called Few People Agree On the Definition of Sex. They covered an issue that I’ve been meaning to write about for a while, namely that different people mean different things when they say the word sex. For some people, sex includes oral sex.  For others it doesn’t.  There are actually […]