Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Blind Date?

As I’ve mentioned, I started online dating back in the dark ages, when very few people had their pictures posted.  Not only didn’t people have their pictures posted, but most of us didn’t have a digital version of ourselves to send as an attachment in an email.  I remember one guy asking me for one […]

The End of the Story, aka How To Find A Great F*Buddy, Part 8

Eventually we found each other (online, just like the others).  We met on a weekend afternoon at a busy Starbucks with people bustling all around us.  Somehow we found a place to sit and talk (we were both working that day, I remember, and the Starbucks was convenient to both of our offices).  We were immediately […]
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Starting Over, Again (for the umpteenth time)

So the plan is that I’m going to start dating again.  That’s the plan.  But I haven’t gotten going yet. Why? Well, for starters, I need new pictures.  My last “new pics” are about a year old and I’m really strict about that.  Truth is, I’ve put on about 5-8 pounds (depending on the day/week) […]
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Don’t Forget

Sorry guys, this is one of my non-post posts.  There are just so many things going on, so many moving pieces, I want to make sure everyone is in the loop. First off, today is the last day of the Who Has the Best Online Dating Profile Contest (click here for more info).  It’s been […]
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Have We Met?

Meet – verb: to come upon; come into the presence of; encounter I do a lot of online dating.  This isn’t a new thing for me.  I’m an online dating veteran, having first tried it out in the late 90s back when very few people posted pictures of themselves. Frequently, when I’m talking about a […]
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