Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

It’s a Matter of Taste

Have I ever mentioned how much I love brunch? I love brunch. Going out to brunch and also having friends over for brunch. I love the way people can just arrive when they arrive, and come and go over the course of the afternoon. Casual and mellow. Anyway, I had some friends over for brunch […]

Because Sometimes Love is Just a Matter of Luck…

I officially suck at coming up with titles and catch-phrases. Anyone who reads this blog on a somewhat regular basis already knows this. It’s just not something I have a knack for. And (probably) because of that I am uber-appreciative of people who ARE good at it. So I kinda swooned when I first watched […]

How About We… Skip to the Good Part

Most people think of me as a longtime fan of online dating.  And I am. But I’m always relieved when a guy cuts through the layers of potential BS to say, in the first or second email, “hey you seem cool, let’s just skip all this email/phone call stuff and meet.” Because when it comes […]

Variety is the Spice of Life

I’ve rarely been accused of being shy. But I am a Gemini. So while there’s a part of me that thrives in social situations, there’s another part of me that likes to just stay home and read. And lately, I gotta admit, the quiet side of me has been pretty much in control. I’ve turned […]

“Let’s have a frank discussion about our favorite sexual positions.”

Or maybe not. I was actually looking for a fun, flirty (ridiculously hilarious) ecard to send to someone when this one caught my eye. Honestly, I can’t think of anything less sexy than having a frank discussion about sex with someone I don’t frequently see naked. Someone with whom I’m in an honest and trusting […]