Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Talk About TMI!!!

Speaking of random online dating nonsense. One of the other messages in my inbox must have, certainly, set a record for the most egregious oversharing with a total stranger, ever. I was informed, by this guy who seemed to want to go out with me (because why else would he be writing) that he’s a [...]

It’s a Matter of Taste

Have I ever mentioned how much I love brunch? I love brunch. Going out to brunch and also having friends over for brunch. I love the way people can just arrive when they arrive, and come and go over the course of the afternoon. Casual and mellow. Anyway, I had some friends over for brunch [...]

Because Sometimes Love is Just a Matter of Luck…

I officially suck at coming up with titles and catch-phrases. Anyone who reads this blog on a somewhat regular basis already knows this. It’s just not something I have a knack for. And (probably) because of that I am uber-appreciative of people who ARE good at it. So I kinda swooned when I first watched [...]

How About We… Skip to the Good Part

Most people think of me as a longtime fan of online dating.  And I am. But I’m always relieved when a guy cuts through the layers of potential BS to say, in the first or second email, “hey you seem cool, let’s just skip all this email/phone call stuff and meet.” Because when it comes [...]

Variety is the Spice of Life

I’ve rarely been accused of being shy. But I am a Gemini. So while there’s a part of me that thrives in social situations, there’s another part of me that likes to just stay home and read. And lately, I gotta admit, the quiet side of me has been pretty much in control. I’ve turned [...]