Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

More Interesting

I was supposed to have a date last night.  I had to cancel/rechedule because I was sick.  The guy is someone I’d been flirting pretty heavily with via email before I hid my profile and as soon as I reposted he saw it and contacted me.  More importantly for today’s topic, I initiated first contact […]
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So, I seek out interesting men who I might want to communicate with (online – and yes, if I meet someone in the real flesh and blood world I have no issue with just asking him out also – I’ve talked about that).  So what do I mean by interesting? That’s a complicated thing.  It’s […]

You’ve Got Mail vs. Add to Cart

I’ve written before about online dating.  For those of you who are new to this blog, I’m a fan.  I don’t have universally wonderful things to say about online dating.  Not all of my experiences with it have been good.  No, I like online dating despite the fact that most of the guys (women, too) […]
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Quick (Probably silly) Thought

LisaQ from 20/40 recently mentioned in the comments (it came up in relation to my telling Mr. Potential about it) that she told a man she’d met online about her blog, before they met.  He checked it out and was very encouraging and thoughtful and perhaps even more excited about meeting her after reading her […]
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Not Enough Potential

Yesterday was one of those weird days when I thought the day was going to be all about one thing and it turned out to be about something completely different.  Early in the day, yesterday, I made up my mind to do something pretty big.  It was one of those, ‘throw a stick of dynamite […]