Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

A Quick Morning Thought (More On Online Dating)

So I now have most of the 30+ guys who are in my “active match” group on in a holding pattern.  I’d delete them but I can’t just delete them.  To get rid of them I’d need to give the system a reason why and quite frankly I just don’t feel like doing that. I […]
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Day 5 – Online Dating for Dummies?

Phew.  I’m on Day 5 of my current quest to unearth the secrets of online dating success.  OK, screw that.  I’m on Day 5 of my assessment of a few of the services that I wasn’t using before and will probably never use again.  Here’s the latest: OKCupid - I received a few messages from […]

3 Days in Hell (More Adventures in Online Dating)

I’ve written openly about the fact that I’m an active online dater.  I usually don’t use one of those fancy services that try to assist with the matching process.  Instead, I rely on the one that I’ve determined has the largest pool of men in my targest demographic that I might be interested in meeting […]


I’m kinda, sorta going to be taking a break from dating.  I’ll be writing more about the why’s of that later in the weekend.  In the meantime, I have a whole list of things to write about.  Periodically I get topic requests from readers, or I’ll think of something I want to write about (maybe I’ll […]
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Enough About Sex, Already

I think I’ve blogged more about sex in the last few days than I have in the last few months prior.  I think it’s time for me to abruptly change the topic. Here’s what the rest of my week looks like: I have my second date tonight with The GrownUp.  We’re meeting for drinks at […]