Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Guaranteed Failure

OK, I don’t like doing stuff like this.  It’s not really my thing.  But I can’t help myself.  I’m online now, in another window, trying to get through my Plenty of Fish inbox and WTF?  I cannot believe that these guys think that they’re trying.  The messages that I’m getting (not all of them. but […]

Let the Games Begin (More Online Dating)

I registered with Plenty of Fish last night.  Now that’s a different site. I don’t dislike it.  Not yet. There are just SO many men registered there, I find it hard to believe there’s no one there for me. And in fact, I did a little browsing and favorited 3 guys (out of the several […]
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Not Quite Saturday

I usually try to post this stuff on Saturdays, but I was too excited to wait another day.  Plus, it’s just nice to have something positive to think/write about. Sex, Lies and Dating in the City has now been added to Alltop.  You may have already noticed the cute little badge I posted over there on […]
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A Picture is Worth…

A friend sent me a picture of myself, dancing with dear mutual friend of ours, from a long ago party.  It was so thoughtful of her, as it brought back such sweet memories.  But my first reaction was to cringe.  I look dreadful.  Beyond dreadful.  Hideous.  I almost always do in photographs.  I’m really unphotogenic. I […]

Location, Location, Location

So there was this one guy who I actually found more than just a little bit interesting/attractive on Chemistry.com.  He definitely stood out from the rest of the crowd.  But of course there was one thing tragically wrong with him.  He lives in the suburbs, about an hour away from the city by train. Still, I […]