Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

My Nondate

Last night I had a nondate. A couple of weeks ago I was supposed to meet this guy for drinks, and he emailed early in the day saying he was still interested in meeting me but had had a couple of promising dates with a new girl and so was thinking that our “date” would […]
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5 Things A Guy Shouldn’t Put in His Online Profile (Taken from Real Personal Ads )

I’ve been saving these up, collecting them, over time.  Each was taken, verbatim from some guy’s profile (no, I’m not going to say which service).  I chose these specific statements because they represent classic errors that I see all the time.  And yeah, I know women make lots of errors in their profiles too, but […]

He’s Just Not That Into Me & I’m Kinda Bummed

So I had that first date on Tuesday night. The one that was really short.  He still hasn’t gotten in contact with me.  I haven’t gotten in contact with him, either.  And I have no intention of doing so.  I’m 100% positive that, in this case, it would be the wrong thing to do. It […]
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And It Was Good

So last night’s date was full of surprises.  Most of them good. He’s SO an old picture guy.  He’s the same weight, but his hair is significantly more gray and a totally different style.  I think gray hair can be totally hot, btw.  In fact, I think he was way more attractive in person than […]
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Stuff I Learned Cruising For Chicks

So last week I spent some time cruising for chicks.  And let me tell you, that was funny.  Women can be just as silly as men, and in some ways WAY sillier. I think the thing that surprised me the most was just how many women were overtly looking for a sugardaddy (even if they […]