Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Money, Money, Money + an Update or Two

I’m front-loading this post with apologies galore.  I’m totally ignoring my editorial calendar again. I’m just not in the mood for a list post.  I promise to return to regularly scheduled programming sometime soon. Now, before I get to the topic at hand, I wanted to give you all a couple of updates on my […]
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No Match

As I mentioned last week, I decided it was time to give my OkCupid and nerve profiles a rest.  At least for a little while.  In the meantime, I’m supposed to be making more of an effort to go out and meet new people (hard when you’re not feeling well, which was the case for […]


This week we have a post from an anonymous contributor.  On that note, if any of my male readers out there would like to send me a story for the Sunday feature, I’d be thrilled. You can stay anonymous, or I can credit you for the post with a link to your blog. I can […]
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Time to Change

I’ve been switching back and forth, for the past few months, between two online dating services: OkCupid and  Sometimes using them simultaneously and sometimes just one or the other.  I like them both (each for different reasons, which I’ve mentioned before).  And, in fact, there are several dozen guys in NYC in my target […]
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3 Guys Online: A Study

Like so many other people in the US, I’m “away” this weekend.  So no dates for me (and no, I don’t have anything scheduled with Mr. Nicepost for next week and yes, this makes me a little anxious). I’m still an active online dater.  Here’s a story of three men, all of whom have written […]