Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Guaranteed Failure

OK, I don’t like doing stuff like this.  It’s not really my thing.  But I can’t help myself.  I’m online now, in another window, trying to get through my Plenty of Fish inbox and WTF?  I cannot believe that these guys think that they’re trying.  The messages that I’m getting (not all of them. but […]

Enough About Sex, Already

I think I’ve blogged more about sex in the last few days than I have in the last few months prior.  I think it’s time for me to abruptly change the topic. Here’s what the rest of my week looks like: I have my second date tonight with The GrownUp.  We’re meeting for drinks at […]

Red Flags (not in a good way)

Let’s be honest, so much of online dating is about figuring out who you don’t want to meet.  Looking for the little red flags that say, this guy might seem attractive, smart, imaginative and all that good stuff but something just isn’t right.  Avoid him.  If you consistently miss those red flags then you end […]

More Interesting

I was supposed to have a date last night.  I had to cancel/rechedule because I was sick.  The guy is someone I’d been flirting pretty heavily with via email before I hid my profile and as soon as I reposted he saw it and contacted me.  More importantly for today’s topic, I initiated first contact […]

Resolution (in my mind)

I was doing some hard core wallowing earlier today.  Sadly I felt the need to share my feeling with the folks on Twitter, which somehow made it worse. What should have been a passing feeling turned into a long, drawn out evaluation of what I was feeling and why. I’d made the mistake of checking […]
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