Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Give a Guy a Chance?

So this is a story of me being completely picky and unreasonable. Or maybe it’s not.  Truth is, my memory is a little hazy on the details. I got a message in my online dating inbox the other day from a man who wondered why I rejected him (he didn’t use those words, but that’s […]

Confirming My Suspicion

So the other day I was taking a twitter break and saw this tweet from @TresSugar - Question of the day: What would you do if you discovered your boyfriend still had an online dating profile? Been there, done that. *Giant sigh* For me, it was confirmation that the man I was in love with […]

Look Your Best – Dating Headshots

I’ve been thinking a lot about dating lately. As in, dating again. As I mentioned last week, I miss dating. And now that I’ve moved and I’m starting to feel better, I’m starting to get myself ready to get back into the game. For me, that means exercising, so that I can feel better about […]

Blast from the Past: 7 Things A Guy Needs to Know About Picking An Online Dating Profile Picture

It’s the Friday before the Labor Day Weekend and it seems like half the US has started their long weekends early.  Not me. I’m working today. Sort of. Today’s (rerun) post came to mind as I clicked on a totally hysterical email from one of the online services (who shall remain nameless, under the ‘if […]

It Doesn’t Matter. Until it Does.

It came up over lunch, the way it so frequently does. We were three single women. All of us signed up with online dating sites. So we asked each other, how’s it going? The details might change from lunch to lunch, but the basics are always the same.  We’re exchanging messages with some guys. Maybe […]