I Still Get to Say No
So a funny thing happens when you’re my age and still single, well many funny things… One of those funny things is that there lots are people who assume you should “stop being so picky.” And that the reason I’m single is that I’ve been turning away perfectly good guys for random, frivolous reasons. Oh, [...]
Asshole Shields
You all know I’m old, right? Well, way back in the dark ages of the late 80s and early 90s it wasn’t all that cool for women to wear glasses. I mean, if you walked into a bar or club, you would see maybe 1 or 2 women in the whole place wearing them. As [...]
and the Bad Dates…
I had a post all set and ready to go for today. It just needed a bit of polishing… And then I read The Big Girl Blog’s post this morning and she totally inspired me to write this. Her post was called, How to Deal with Rejection. An important topic for any dater (or human [...]
Give a Guy a Chance?
So this is a story of me being completely picky and unreasonable. Or maybe it’s not. Truth is, my memory is a little hazy on the details. I got a message in my online dating inbox the other day from a man who wondered why I rejected him (he didn’t use those words, but that’s [...]
Confirming My Suspicion
So the other day I was taking a twitter break and saw this tweet from @TresSugar - Question of the day: What would you do if you discovered your boyfriend still had an online dating profile? Been there, done that. *Giant sigh* For me, it was confirmation that the man I was in love with [...]





