Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Looks Are Pass/Fail

As I mentioned, one of my recent dates was with a younger guy (8 years younger, to be exact).  I will admit to being uncomfortable with this, but I’m trying to be open-minded and get over it because I had fun on our date (and we’re going out again tonight). At some point on our […]

Back to It – a Quick Online Dating Update

So I spent some this weekend cleaning up my online dating inboxes and actually searching through the hundreds of men who came up as my potential “matches”.  I sent out some emails, replied to some emails, and lo and behold, I hope I’m on my way to having a couple of dates this week. I gotta […]

Shame On Me

It’s after 1pm and I’m just sitting down to write my post.  Shame on me. January 2 and I’m already blowing one of my resolutions – take my blog more seriously. I’ve been preoccupied this morning with getting my new online profiles together (they’re not really “new”, just updated) and shopping for guys for Lucky […]

Blind Date?

As I’ve mentioned, I started online dating back in the dark ages, when very few people had their pictures posted.  Not only didn’t people have their pictures posted, but most of us didn’t have a digital version of ourselves to send as an attachment in an email.  I remember one guy asking me for one […]

Starting Over, Again (for the umpteenth time)

So the plan is that I’m going to start dating again.  That’s the plan.  But I haven’t gotten going yet. Why? Well, for starters, I need new pictures.  My last “new pics” are about a year old and I’m really strict about that.  Truth is, I’ve put on about 5-8 pounds (depending on the day/week) […]