Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

The time I may have gone out with a serial killer by Charlotte of My Pixie Blog

Please welcome Charlotte of My Pixie Blog as she shares an incredibly creepy story of the scariest man on OkCupid.com. Ladies, beware.  I feel guilty for a lot of things most people would probably not think twice about. Maybe I didn’t hold the door as long as I should have and then I curse myself for […]

Team in Dating

I’ve been slacking on weekends, I know. But I have a fab new Guy’s Story for you to make up for it.  Today’s story is from SFSingleGuy, the author of the blog’s very first Guy’s Story. Team in Dating “Hi!”, said her message in my OkCupid inbox.  Attractive, brainy, and rides bikes.  That was a […]

3 Months

It’s been a little more than 3 months since I started to use Match and Chemistry (and stopped using OkCupid and nerve.com).  The time flew by, and to be honest, I haven’t made the most of my memberships.  I could have/should have spent more time working at it. Especially Chemistry, which really encourages members to […]

Is The Universe Trying to Tell Me Something?

So a few weeks(?) ago I got a message from some guy on OkCupid. He seemed smart, funny, cute and familiar. Like we’d met already. I couldn’t place him, though. So I replied to his message and said, straight out, You seem familiar, is it possible that we’ve met? A couple of days passed and […]

A Change of Scenery

As I mentioned recently, I haven’t been doing too well on nerve.com. Still getting attention from guys in their 20s, 50s and 60s, but not so much from the men in their late 30s and 40s  - the ones I’d want to date. Things are different over on OkCupid. There are still plenty of candidates, […]