Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Still Single, for Now

The other day I was talking to my dad (actually, I went to visit him and so speaking with him in person…) and he said that after I left he’d call all of my aunt’s and tell them that I was doing well. The normal stuff. I don’t know why, but suddenly I felt defensive. […]

“…I’m fully capable of changing a light bulb all by myself.”

I took some time off this weekend to just relax and chill out.  One of the things I did with my “chill-out” time was catch up on some light reading (it’d been weeks since I actually had time to read through all of my favorite sections of the Sunday NYTimes). Sometime around midday I came […]

Rethinking My Love

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, there are few things I really believe in and hold to be true.  I don’t believe in god, organized religion, monogamy (although I have plenty of respect for people who do believe in those things and would hope that you all – the majority – could […]
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Dating is Funny

I’m all about trying new things.  You can call me Ms. Sure, Why Not?  So when I got an email inviting me to something called Laugh and Match, I was intrigued.  And also disappointed because it was scheduled for last night and I had long standing dinner plans with my newlywed friends.  Then I got […]
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Pretty Day, Ugly Thoughts

I just came back from one of the nicest walks I’ve taken in ages.  The city is beyond gorgeous today.  The sun is shining but there’s a cool breeze and so it’s warm without being hot.  I took a nice long walk through Central Park, with lots of stops along the way to just sit […]
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